Feeling Insecure

Hey ladies, I’ll try not to make this too long I’m really just looking for some tips on this topic!

So I’m in a new relationship with a really great guy, he’s everything I could want! He’s really sweet, sensitive, funny, affectionate, etc. I really enjoy being with him and spending time with him but sometimes when I’m alone at home, I get an overwhelming sense of insecurity and depression.

I’ve been a lot of poor, toxic “relationships” and now that I’m in a healthy relationship, which I’ve never experienced before, I get really unsure of my worth.

I have a lot of negative thoughts and anxiety at times when I’m by myself. I think things like, “What if I’m not good enough? What if I’m too needy or I bug him too much to where he doesn’t want to spend time with me? Maybe I’m too affectionate and it’s off putting?”

I really just want to feel secure, happy, and in the moment with him in our relationship. I really care about him and I believe the same for him but I can’t seem to get rid of these thoughts. I’ve tried to talking to a friend about it, and he definitely helped me out through my last breakdown with this but I want to make sure that I don’t keep having these insecurities and feelings.. I don’t want them to potentially ruin this new relationship.

What should I do? Has anyone else experienced this?