Do everyone have relatipnship issues?

Question

Hey, I just need to hear something from you. 
We’ve been going through some rough patch lately. It’s been a few months since I started visiting psychiatrist to help with my low self-confidence and personal issues that are coming in the way of my happiness. 
My boyfriend has been nothing but nice and understanding. But I worry that I’m making him crazy with my constant depression. 
I often think that maybe it’d be better for me to resolve my issues as a single person and then get in a relationship, but we’ve been together for 4 years, we’re buying a house and we love each other very much.
Whenever I see a happy couple on social media, I always think if they have issues and if they think they can resolve it.
Makes me a bit calm to hear that issues work out better in the end. 
At least that’s what my psychiatrist and my boyfriend tell me ☺️

Answer

My husband and I haven’t had a single issue since we have been married. Some people call bs but we honestly have only had an extremely happy, damn near perfect, marriage. We have been married for almost 4 years. With that being said the first 3 years of our relationship was hell. I was going to therapy to work through my depression, as was he. We suffered so much loss in the first few years we were together. I lost my grandpa and one of my bestfriends and he lost his mom, uncle, and grandpa within a few months. I’m top of that we suffered four miscarriages together. Every single day I tried to leave him because of what I was going through and I thought it would be easier to work on. He fought for us and I am so happy he did. We made it through it and I know we will make it through everything. We have been together for a total of 8 years and those extremely rough years were so worth the 5 years of pure happiness we have had. You have to decide what is best for you, and it may be that you need to be on your own to work through whatever you are going through but I just wanted to share my story with you.

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Girl everyone has issues. I can’t tell you how many people thinks my hubby and I are GOALs lol, I’ve been told many times. We love each other and are happy but we still have issues. We’ve traveled the world and have fun jobs and share that on social media, you may think we have it all.. but we are far from that. So yes everyone has some type of issues

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I had a pretty bad depression and some anxiety issues when we first moved together. It was untreated for a while and got worse.
He looked me dead in the eye and said "I love you, but this has to end if we are gonna be together".. So i dealt with it.
It wasn't easy, it took time and sometimes I admire him for not having left me. Eventually after treatment and medication and changing some life choices I was depression free.
We still have our ups and downs and a baby hadn't made that any easier. But we're together int his crazy life for good and for worse and this fall we say "I do" on our ten year anniversary! 
I wish you all the best 😊

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Every marriage has issue and if they are a rare unicorn of a relationship maybe they are perfect but I don’t believe anyone is truly in the perfect relationship.. I think it’s healthy to argue once in a while as that’s how a lot of relationships get stronger and evolve as the couple grows. Don’t worry about social media. I know someone who posted all these pics with lovely captions and saying how in love they are. A week later they announce that despite all the counseling they tried they’ve decided its best to move on and get a divorce. FB is a highlight reel. A real relationship works because both of them don’t give up at the same time!

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Geez, are we the same person?! I’ve struggled heavily with anxiety, depression, and self-esteem and it has definitely caused some issues in my relationship. But, things are so much better now compared to just a few months ago. Now I’ve been in therapy for a few months, I’m on medication, I’m learning coping skills, and learning how to recognize what is a genuine concern and what is just my anxious, self-loathing shoulder devil saying. 
My advice is to just keep pushing and helping yourself. It is a lengthy process and there are a lot of times it feels like you’ve lost all progress, but it’s so not true! My boyfriend has been very supportive and I’m very happy and blessed to have his encouragement through all of this.

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That's just the devil trying to get in the way of what is successful. He comes to kill, steal, and destroy. Don't let him destroy your relationship because you two are meant to be happy together.

Do everyone have relatipnship issues?

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