I feel like ever since I had my daughter three years ago, I haven't loved my husband. I have constant thoughts about leaving him, and feel so unhappy. Things aren't that bad though - we fight occasionally, he's not a bad person - although he lacks a bit of empathy, and he's a good dad now. It took him a while to get the hang of things though and I feel like that hurt our relationship and bond. He didn't seem to bond with her for a long time and made negative comments about why anyone would want to do this again, which I took personally - I felt like he was rejecting us.

Is this a huge red flag/sign?? Should I be trusting my intuition?? Or is this worth fixing because we have a child. Is this part of PPD? Why do I hate him so much sometimes?