First time fingering positions
This might sound odd, but anyone got any suggestions of positions for being fingered for the first time?
For context: I’m a virgin who hasn’t experienced anything, he has had sex before but it was without doing any fingering. I’m not ready for sex yet which he respects but we both think we should try and do something just to make some progress (we’re both in our 20s just so you know we’re both consenting adults).
We’re both self conscious but want to do it to gain some confidence and bond a little bit but we don’t know what position would be best. We considered that I straddle him but we’re worried it would be too awkward facing each other. He suggested maybe I turn around and bend over so then there’s no awkward eye contact but I’m not comfortable with him seeing all of my bits yet.
We’ve planned I’ll wear a skirt to be a little bit covered cause I’m not comfortable showing him that part of my body just yet and also it’s easier than taking trousers off and being butt naked from the waist down.
We can’t think of any other positions that would have less potential awkwardness as well as covering my modesty a bit. We want to take things slowly because I have anxiety issues and he is worried because it’ll be my first sexual experience and he wants to do a good job.
I feel like I need to say that I couldn’t ask for anyone better because he respects me and wants me to be able to experience life (my anxiety holds me back a lot). He’s pure gold and I’m so grateful for everything he has helped me with 🥰
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