My brother can hang out with friends. She says that's okay. Boys need to hang out with their friends.

I want to hang out with my friends. She says that's not okay because I could get hurt because as a woman, I never know who I can really trust.

My brother can go to sleepovers. No big deal.

I can't go to sleepovers because she doesn't trust the dads. She thinks I'll get raped no matter who the dad is.

My brother can eat late at night. She doesn't care.

If I eat late at night, she says I'm at risk of having health problems in the future.

My brother masturbates and makes it known to the whole family by announcing it and laughing. She says he's a normal teenage boy. I am older btw.

My grandma tells me not to explore myself sexually and never even gave me the talk. She preaches abstinence.

My brother is allowed to stay out until midnight just walking around outside because he needs to clear his head.

I can't walk around outside past 9 because I could get kidnapped.

She says she trust me and knows I make smart decisions. She doesn't trust others.