Anybody else have anxiety over second?

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This was a planned pregnancy but, now that I’m pregnant I’m starting to have anxiety about having 2. Just the typical “will I be able to handle it” and all that. Please tell me this is normal

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I just found out I’m (accidentally) pregnant with #2 and I am terrified. Between daycare costs and dealing with a 2 year old and newborn alone (husband works second shift) I am so scared of what to expect. Thanks for being honest about your nervousness. Nice to know I’m not alone.

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I am with you! The anxiety is strong! My children will be two years apart in age and I’m worried how I’ll juggle an energetic toddler and a newborn. I try to remind myself plenty of women do it, I have help, and it will be great when they can play together. It may be a little tough and exhausting at first but it will great in the long run and worth it. You got this!! ☺️

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I think this is a normal feeling. I’m feeling the same way. Before getting pregnant I was all “r got this” “it won’t be bad” and hubby was like ehhh idk. Now here we are 8 weeks pregnant and dealing with a moody 2 year old and I’m wondering if I will be able to handle two kids 🤣 I am still very excited and have no regrets but I am nervous on how we will all transition from a family of 3 to a family of 4.

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I had that a lot worries while pregnant with my second and once she was here it just seemed natural. I won’t lie it’s had it moments (she’s not the easiest baby) but I wouldn’t trade it.

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Yes! We are excited to have a 2nd but also terrified. How do you find time for yourself with two little ones?

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Same here! 16 weeks with #2 that was planned and anxiety has kicked in. Mostly my anxiety is how am I supposed to handle a toddler and a baby at the same time and how will my toddler take the transition? 
My 15 month old is a huge mamas boy. I'm a SAHM so he is very attached, so I'm worried that he isn't going to appreciate his mama taking care of another baby. He already get jealous when I hold our dog on my lap, much less a baby!

Anybody else have anxiety over second?

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