Relationship Advice?

Question

Any tips on how to stop and avoid arguing since bringing baby home? 
We never used to fight, when we’d get upset we’d step away and return when we were able to talk respectfully. We don’t do that anymore. I’m heartbroken. I don’t want to keep arguing with him🥺

Answer

I was very sleep-deprived and super mean to my husband after a few weeks of exclusively taking care of our baby through the night. I'm breastfeeding so I took the burden of always feeding her which meant waking up every couple of hours. It was taking a toll on our relationship until we were just resentful and nasty to eachother. Finally I pumped out a couple bottles worth of milk and handed him the baby and slept for 8 hours until I felt like a person again. Take turns getting some sleep is my advice, you will both be nicer, better able to problem solve, and more open to hearing the other person out. 
If anything, these fights mean you're a normal couple! We all.go through it! Seriously Google fights after you have a baby. I bet you are having almost every single one. It made me feel like, ok we're normal and this won't be the end of us!
Good luck!!

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What are the arguments mostly about? Like are u guys just tired and grumpy or is it about parenting? Or random stuff?

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What you use to do shouldn’t stop and you need to openly communicate. What are you arguing about? Is it because you’re tired and just the lack of sleep? Just need to talk figure it out what the real issue is if their is one or are y’all snapping because of sleep? We had this issue when we had our first son tho ha changed we were in baby mode and tired and not giving our relationship the attention it deserved.

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