Bit of a long rant
So, I've been with my significant other since the age 14. I'm now, going on 18 and we've hit every single pothole in the road. We've both delt with alcoholism, drugs, cheating, fighting even a miscarriage but we've picked back up.
About a year ago, he sat me down and we talked. We talked about what we've done and where we went wrong and how we need to fix it. His exact words were "We've come so far, and the thought of not having you and seeing you with someone else, holding his baby with his ring on your finger makes me sick."
After that, we both got clean and stopped the cheating and the drama and the fighting. He's every thing I could have ever wanted.
At our worst, we'd get into fist fights, beat the hell out of each other, go out spend all night cheating on eachother, not talk for days and then he'd just show up drunk and we'd make up as well as bailing each other out of jail and getting right back into trouble (id give his family the money to do it and he did the same for me). He's gotten the same girl pregnant twice while cheating on me as well
But at our best, now, he's always holding my hand, telling me I'm perfect, playing in my hair, watching movies until we both fall asleep, going out together, he's always all over me and he's just an angle. He encouraged me to go back to school and finish, and even though he's in college he still makes time for me. He makes sure I'm taking care of myself mentally and physically and even on my worst days he worships me basically.
Im so tired of my family telling me he hasn't changed and he's going to slip back and start that shit again, there is not a person in the world who could tell me he doesn't love me vise versa. When I told them I was trying to have a baby with him, they absolutely screamed in my face telling me if I did they would not stop calling social services until they made sure he would never see that baby. My step dad even went as far to say he would personally take my baby and run with it, I know its not legal in any way for them to do any of this but the thought of somebody trying to take my baby scares me. I don't even live with them, I live with my boyfriend in a 2 bedroom apartment big enough for a family. Money is not an issue either for us. I just need help
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