Hi ladies!

So a little backstory...my boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. He has 2 kids from his marriage to his ex wife, and they are civil. It wasn't civil in the beginning because I came into the picture and she felt threatened. Mind you, she has a boyfriend as well (although he lives out of state).

Lately, my boyfriend and her have been buddy buddy on things that don't involve the kids AT ALL. The original arrangement was that they would talk about kid related issues only, and nothing else (their agreement, I had no involvement). Now, she calls him upwards of 5 times per day talking about her job, or school, or her family issues and they will talk on the phone and talk it out until "she's feeling better" 🙄

My issue here is, this is his ex wife, and she has a BOYFRIEND of her own, that she is constantly saying how much she loves and can't wait to move in with. But she is consistently calling her ex husband to basically gossip and complain about things. And he definitely feeds into it. I've told him before how uncomfortable it makes me feel, and that ended with her attacking me via text and creating all sorts of drama about it. So I dropped it.

Am I in the wrong for feeling weird or uncomfortable about this? I should add, she makes it a point to "forget something for the kids" and will have to drop it off to him at his work or at OUR home when she knows I'm not home...it's really becoming frustrating. I trust him 100%, but I'm starting to not trust her at all.

She also makes it a point to not make any kind of relationship with me since she sent the text messages almost 2 months ago. I basically do not exist anymore. She claims she wants us all to co-parent, which I am completely on board for, but she is making it impossible for me to even be involved.

Help a girl out!!