okay so i’ve been talking to this guy for like 4 months. he’s such a sweet guy, honestly everything i’ve wanted in a man. BUT i don’t find him that attractive, like at all. and he honestly gets on my nerves so much lately. I just keep telling myself hell grow on me, looks don’t matter, etc. but its so hard sometimes. but i have 2 kids and he’s SO good with them and my kids like him. I do like him, but the looks thing really gets to me sometimes. I was with my children’s father for 5 years and I found him SO attractive. I wanted everyone to know that was my man. but this new guy, i’m kind of embarrassed by. but he’s such a gentleman, he’s respectful, has a bright future ahead of him, spoils me already (i’m not about materialistic things at ALL. this is the first boyfriend i’ve had that even got me anything. so it’s new to me)

i just don’t know what to do😭😭

has anyone dated someone they didn’t find attractive and they eventually grew on them and they began to find them cute? looks aren’t everything i know that, but it’s hard to want to expose your relationship and even want to be intimate with one another when you arent attracted to them🙃