Okay ladies so I’m just gonna be real with you and tell you the situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year. We’re eachothers first everything an recently our sex life has been DRY.

The thing is, in the beginning it was great, we were both super sexual with eachother, we were doing it all the time! But for me it’s not so much the quantity of sex we have it’s the quality. I think the biggest thing has been the way we approach sex. As times gone on I feel like he’s sees me more as just a sexual object whereas I feel I’m more mature about it. I get turned on more by knowing that he wants me even when I don’t flash my boobs or when he rubs his crotch up against me when we spoon Yano? it’s like his approach to it is so teenage boyish and if anything that turns me off. Now I find myself not wanting him sexually because I think subconsciously when we do have sex in my head I know the sexual attraction between us is quite short lived - and by short lived I mean however as long it takes for him to get hard to him finishing.

I guess my point is I feel like our feelings towards sex our different now. Whereas I want to be more emotional about it he’s not so much like that. Of course I understand theres probably issues with the sex we actually have too. For one I sometimes don’t like the way the sex feels physically (is that weird? I feel like it’s weird and it worries me). I also think the way we initiate it is a problem.

Anyway rant over ladies, sorry for the long ness of it! Ugh idk I guess it’s just getting me down and I think it’s bothering me so much because Deep down I don’t feel wanted anymore.

Any help or advice or just general discussion would be much appreciated