Hernias while pregnant?

I had my son 6/4/17 and due to my body carrying so much weight it caused me to form two hernias above my belly button, I was due for surgery 30/07/19 only to find out I was 6 weeks pregnant and I’ve had nothing but pain in them after giving birth to my son. I’m really stressing and wondered if anyone else has gone threw pregnancy having hernias and their experience? All I get told by my midwife is that it’s something to be closely monitored as they can’t operate now 😞