To shame, or to not be shamed by age

Growing up, I’ve known this little boy for about 8 years now. He and I are older now. He’s grown feelings, and I’m iffy about it. Im 19, he’s turning 17 in November. Tell me guys, does this make me seem like a cougar? 😂 am I rocking the cradle? He’s a good guy and all but I’m not trying to get into some heated fights with his parents and the society 👀 what are yalls thoughts? Have you ever dated a younger guy? Did it work out for you?