How do you mamas that aren't blessed with a village to help handle stress? My mother passed away a month before I conceived my baby girl and she was really the only person ive ever had. During my pregnancy my family and husband's family were very generous but after she was born everyone abandoned us. We are stressed, sleep deprived, and lonely. We haven't had visitors in months and every time we attempt to visit family they guilt trip us about never coming to see them when it is sooo hard to take a newborn places in general. They're inconsiderate and blame us for them not having a bond with our daughter. I almost cry when my mommy friends tell me "my parents took the baby for the night so we could have some us time". I am by no means complaining about my baby girl bc she is a blessing but I really would just love to have some help so I don't feel so alone and stressed ya know?