This guy who I met last year used to talk on and off but this summer is when I absolutely had enough of his shit and cut it off with him. What we had was a complete situationship. At first, we started off cool as friends and as time went by, feelings for him grew. But as time passed, I also felt like he would be full of bs with me and wasn’t “serious” about me. I just felt like I put in more. He said he really liked me/wanted me and he would freak out on the thought of me talking to other people but at the same time, he wanted to take things slow, despite the fact we were talking for several months. I wanted more and he seemed ok with not progressing things between us. I blame myself for this but I would always get on him and trying to change his mindset but I feel like if he wanted something it would’ve happened. Back to now. Since I cut him off. It’s been 3 times that he has hit me up trying to rekindle things. The first time I fell for it because honestly he’s the first guy I’ve done a lot for and really felt for. He said how he wanted to see me but after that I didn’t hear from him again. The second time I basically lashed out on him cuz I felt like he was just trying to play with me and he ended up lashing back. Now this time he went the route of saying how he missed being around me and that he misses our connection. I laid it down by saying how I want something more that’ll turn into a relationship and that I don’t want games, etc. He basically said he was with it and wanted to try and didn’t want me to have a guard up/trust him. Well he said that an an app that he knows I have because he thought I blocked his number. What’s weird tho is that he would text my phone and I would reply and he wouldn’t respond. Idk if he’s lying or not but he said that he didn’t receive my texts but we both have iPhones and when it sent, it turned blue. It’s been 2 days a since I’ve last heard of him and what he told me on the app just seems like something he said cuz he’s bored. What do I do now? Drop it or text him one last time confronting him to see if he was serious about his words and leave him with an ultimatum or just drop it. He made me feel like I don’t matter when he doesn’t reply (it used to be frequently) and it’s annoying to have this feeling now because I’m trying to move on with my life and I feel like he’s holding me back. Either he gets serious for real or leaves me the hell alone.