*Do not read if this will trigger any emotional pain or memories*

So in psychology we learned about the different Paraphilias (sexual fantasy). One that really caught my attention is the rape fantasy. I found it interesting because you hear so many bad things about it on the news. I was curious as to why would it be a sexual fantasy.

Is it the feeling of not being in control that gets them hot and bothered? The thrill?

The danger? How does that even work without it sounding like actual rape? It would be two adults consenting to it. So would they be judged for acting out a fantasy that’s someone else’s nightmare? Or has it become a normal thing for couples to spice up the bedroom.