is it weird for a guy not wanting to have sex yet? i mean at the beginning of our talking stage thats all we wanted to do and we tried to h ave sex, but it didnt work out because i wasnt ready, so we just stopped that but now i feel like its not even a thought of his? i dont think he’s seein anyone else i mean i please him but im confused as to why i dont get pleased back? i feel like when i try to bring it up he says i need to wait for the right time? we’ve been talkin for like 8 months now and its not official, im confused ? maybe i need to stop pleasing him? now that im ready he doesnt really care for it and i tell him but he doesnt wanna rlly talk about it