Still insecure after abusive relationship

Abby

I was in an abusive relationship which ended 2 years ago and although I’m over him and the relationship I still feel crazy insecure about the things he would say was wrong with me.

Is this normal? It’s still continuing to ruin potential romantic partners and he said nobody would ever put up with me but him and it’s just seeming to be true.

I’ve had counselling and was also appointed a domestic abuse support worker but I’m just still so embarrassed talking to anyone about how I’m feeling because I just feel stupid.