For all the mamas:

Honest feedback would be greatly appreciated, no judgement.

No negative comments, people that have nothing helpful to say or positive to contribute, move along to the next poll.

I got back from my gynaecologist and I’ve got a certain small window left if I want to have kids. I thought about this for five years and I’m not sure if I should have children or not for many reasons.

Anxiety and depression runs in my family in the genes and it will most likely be passed on to the kids, plus and I’m not sure how I’ll cope, and if they’re worth it in the end.

Although i’m fairly confident I will cope fine.

The world is getting harder, and I’m not sure I want to raise children in it, and i am prepared to be a single mother if need be if my relationship doesn’t work out after kids, but a part of me has always wanted children badly till now.

I enjoy living the single bachelorette lifestyle, however I think it be nice in my final years to have at least some family left...

But I’m just as happy to try and meet friends in the community when I age.

Heart is telling me to have some kids though. Logic is telling me know.

Please help, thanks xo