Should i get a divorce?!
In short words, he is the biggest jerk and immature man. I discovered his true colors the day i moved in with him. We marry one month ago while i was on my last three weeks of pregnancy with twins (my first, his 4th & 5th kids now) Yes, there was big red flags that i ignored and had hope on him that he might realized how good of a woman i am... The day i had my babies (last week) i asked nicely if it was ok that my mom went inside the surgery room with me, i was so scared that i chose her to be by my side (she basocally took care of me since day one of my pregnancy!). He agreed and then later that day at the hospital i felt him being mad and ignoring me and my family (specially ignoring my mom) so i knew he was mad about it. He said yes he is mad because he didnt not have the chance to have that memory i said is ok, right now is not late to start more memories. He is a big stubborn man, getting so mad for so little, this is not the first time he acts like that.
There is more to say but i just feel that i made a mistake by marrying him. He even mention to me about bringing divorce papers at the hospital! I never thought he would say something like that! That scared me and made me have doubts and feeling so unvalued by him...the man i loved and now i just dont know if i want to go back home with him and be miserable the rest of my life. 😰 Everybody told me why the f he acted so immature a d selfish while i just had two beautiful girls through c-section ... he is not helping me at all financially, he never did during my pregnancy either and now he is saying im not letting him see the babies...like wtf is wrong with this person i married and is saying so many nom sense things...😰 he wanted me to go to a public place with the babies right after i got home from the hospital! (Im at my mom’s house for obvious reasons, trying to recover) he hasnt been here at all. I tried to talk to him (not texts or calls) but he didnt want to and he just wants to see the babies (what a great father..)
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