Let me preface this with, I’m married, he’s married and he is almost twice my age. He is so kind and so helpful and I feel like I’m reading in to all of his kindness. I honestly would do anything for him and that makes me so weak. He’s also the smartest man I have ever met. I read something about confusing intellectual excitability with sexual desire. Maybe that’s what I’m doing but I can’t help but wonder if he feels the same. He’s never said or done anything inappropriate. I know it would destroy both of our careers but I can’t help but think about him often. How do I even begin to get over it when I have been crushing on him for almost a year? Help please!