This is just for fun obviously but me and my SO have had this debate so many times. He prefers to fill up a sink with soapy water throw the dishes in, wash them in that water and then rinse them before drying. I prefer to leave the sink empty and leave the water running while I wash the dishes putting soap on the cloth and adding soap as I go. I also rinse the dishes beforehand and after washing. When my SO saw me do this when we were first together he hated it and said that it didn’t get all the bacteria off and all this stuff but I looked it up and proved him wrong as there is no difference when they’ve done studies on the bacteria level at the end of washing dishes either way. Also I like this way because putting my hands back into a pit of old dishes, saliva off of cutlery and old food grosses me out and I feel like as soon as you put the dirty dishes in there then how is that water clean anymore? Lol. So who washes in running water and who fills the sink up? Does it drive you crazy if you see someone doing it the other way?