How to handle the negative remarks

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This is my first pregnancy, and with a lot of my family and husbands family living out of state I’ve been posting bump updates on FB. Lately with the last few photos I’ve been getting comments from his side of the family telling me I’m too small. His friends mom even commented asking if I go to the doctors, because I don’t look healthy, and she also asked if I’m eating. I’ve explained multiple times on there that everybody carries different. My mom didn’t show in her first pregnancy until she was 8 months, but my sister started showing really early with all three of her kids. I know my baby girl is healthy and growing, and my doctor isn’t concerned. I’ve gained about 30Ibs so far, but I’m just convinced it’s all gone to my butt 😂. How does everybody handle the comments?