Is this controlling?

Boyfriend of 5 years suddenly told me to move out. It was horrible. We didnt speak or sleep next to each other for a straight week. He didnt even ask for my half of the rent so I knew he really wanted me out. I ignored him for 2 more days.didnt text. Didnt call.didnt wonder where he was. He started texting non stop trying to be nice. I wouldnt reply. Then he came home and came onto me and we had sex. It was pretty passionate. I thought maybe this was his way of telling me I could stay. Now he is back to not texting and not sleeping in the bed with me. Is this just a controlling and manipulating man? Can someone help me see through the bullshit?

**edit: we got in a fight because his mom just died and I hadnt respected his boundaries. Meaning he had a hard time dealing with it and i was constantly wondering where he was and when he would come home. He communicated WHY he wanted me to move out.**