friendship problems

I see my friend as Toxic because all she does is knock me down by saying all I do is sleep all day and I’m lesser because I don’t have a job or a license but for years now i’ve been struggling with a depression in which i’ve almost flunked out of school and that’s the main thing I feel I need to focus on right now-graduating. After I graduate then I’ll worry about all of that because If i worry about it now i’ll definitely get overwhelmed and make things worse for myself. Now shes turning it around on me because I expressed to her how I felt and she’s saying I’m the bad person because she is an anxious person too and I put too much pressure on her being her friend because all she does is stress out about how I am. I genuinely don’t know what the heck to do because everything I do is wrong to her.