I’m really struggling to trust my boyfriend because of some things that happened.

Last weekend he lied to me about where he was and what he was doing. He told me he was at home and in bed but he was out drunk with his brother (there was literally no need to lie as I don’t care about him going out drinking as long as I at least know). He ignored all of my WhatsApp messages despite being “active” all through the early hours of the morning. He then continued to ignore me for the whole next day when we had plans. Even now I still have no idea what he was really up to.

I expressed my upset and anger at the situation and he eventually apologised and promised me he wouldn’t do any of that to me again. I told him he really needs to prove that I can trust him as things like this have happened a few times before and I won’t put up with being treated like that again to which he agreed.

But today/tonight he’s been away at a wedding, he’s staying overnight with his buddy and I said I’m trusting him but would like if he could check in with me now and again.....

15 hours later I haven’t heard a thing from him. Text him twice and he’s read one and completely ignored it and then been online but not even opened the second.

I feel like a mug. I know this might not seem like a big thing to some people but it takes time for me to really trust someone again after they break it and this has really bothered me after he promised.

We’ve been together over 2 years and I’m struggling to put with this, but I also don’t want to lose him.