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I feel like you are having issues with him being an asshole for one. And you may have ppd. Go talk to the doctor and make sure everything is in order as far as your mental health goes and tell him to back off and respect your feelings
Don't want sex
I gave birth 4 months ago with a c-section. I do not get any pains or anything near my scar, I think it has healed perfectly though I don't want sex. It's not that I don't want my boyfriend or anything. Nothing has changed, I still love him but I just don't want sex and he wants it. But he won't take no for an answer also most of the times since I've given birth I just cry. Most of the times. I feel like there's something putting pressure on me and on the other hand I just want to be alone at the same time I feel lonely. I really wish he could just put himself in my shoes but all he wants it's sex. I even cry while having sex but I don't think he gets it. Everything around me just feels so sad and dark. I don't want to lose him but I also just can't have sex because I don't want to lose him. I know some people will think I am selfish but 8 just don't want sex. Yes, I still have baby fat and very rough stretch marks on my belly but still. I don't think he cares about how I feel towards sex
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Di
They really not, most of my friends worship their boyfriends and I am the opposite as they always say 'you like being a savage'
Di
The way things are going, I think I will me the one leaving him. I don't want to raise my daughter without the dad being present but I need to put myself first
Ka
If he left you over that instead of working through it with you, he wasn't worth it to begin with girl
Honestly I definitely lost a lot of my sex drive after my baby is born. I’m not sure if it’s from my iud or post partum depression, but never would my husband pressure me into sex. I’m quite concerned that your boyfriend won’t take no for an answer
Mi
I highly recommend a seeing a therapist and bringing him with you. I brought my husband with me when seeing my therapist for ppd and it’s helped my husband understand more
Di
I really want him to put himself in my shoes. Why can't he understand, I get it he has needs but he needs to understand I can't have sex. I don't want it. The energy isn't there
Mi
I also had my baby 4 months ago!
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