for my girls dad sometimes. She loves him so much and he is SO hands on. She is literally his pride and joy. However sometimes she just freaks out and only wants me- usually when I have to work late, which is rare but that was the case last night. It breaks his heart when he can’t calm her down and it makes my heart hurt for him cause he takes it so personal. When I work mornings & he’s off she’s all smiles with him all day, it’s just a night time thing. I usually nurse her to sleep at night so I was thinking maybe pumping and letting him give her a bottle before bed & letting him put her to sleep some nights? I think she’s so used to only me putting her to sleep that she’s just not happy without me at night but I’m seeing that it’s not fair to him.

Anyone have any ideas on how I can get her used to him putting her down at night too? She’ll nap for him no problem during the day.