Some hope for ladies ttc and tired of Negatives

Courtney

For all of you ladies out their ttc. My partner and I have been together for 5 years and took us 2 1/2 to 3 years to fall pregnant. I got my first positive within seconds of testing. Remind you I was thinking about going to see a specialist see if i was infertile but that month I got my first positive. I tried everything from preseed, to legs up in the air, tracking my ovulation. Even changed food options. It just wasn't working. But I had my twins in November 2017 then got another positive November of 2018 when they turned 12 months. Had my baby July of 2019. Mind you we were not trying but we weren't preventing. After our long ttc journey we just learned to let it happen when it happened. So we weren't stressing about negatives and I remember it putting a toll on our relationship sometimes because we were so into trying. And the joy and fun was taking out of the lovemaking. So for all of you trying best advice I could give is stop Trying for a baby and keep enjoying lovemaking. Just be yourselves. Because stress will not help you get pregnant. Maintain your health and stay stress free. Good luck and baby dust to you ladies ttc. May your dreams come true sooner then later. May you get your first positive or your 2nd or 3rd or maybe more, may you get your rainbow babies.