Hey guys I made a post a few days ago about is it ok for your spouse to not talk to you for days . Well it turns out that he wants a divorce . He wrote me a long text message saying he isn’t happy and it isn’t going to work out and just a lot more excuses that could be worked on . Like me not wanting to cuddle all the time or me not being attracted to him just because I told him to get in shape or not wanting sex all the time ... it’s just sounds like bull to me . He told me not to fight him and he will agree to pay 250 in spousal support and 300 in child support.. idk where he came up with that number but we will see what the court says ... he doesn’t answer my calls he doesn’t respond to texts he deleted all of his social media it’s just crazy that this is coming out of the no where . I feel like it’s another woman because this is ridiculous. He also said I can have everything in the apartment but I will have to put all that stuff in storage because I have to move back with my grandma. I’m a stay at home mom so I don’t work and I’ve been trying to get a job but nothing is working out .. it hurts that he’s doing this . And I know it’s because someone else has his attention. He forgot he logged in on the computer and I can see his calendar and he has some little trip he’s going to and one event has tickets for two people. And I know for a fact it’s not me . This is just crazy . I never wanted my son to grow up in two separate homes . I’m having mixed emotions because part of me is happy part of me isn’t . He was very emotional abusive with his words he has the nastiest mouth when he’s mad so that’s one thing I’m glad I won’t have to deal with . I also won’t have to deal with his controlling ways or making me feel like I can’t have friends or he will think I’m cheating and most of all I won’t have to worry about if he’s cheating ... don’t get me wrong I love my husband because even with his bad qualities there are reasons I fell in love . I honestly wrote this to just get advice on how you dealt with a divorce with a child involved . I’m just sad my son won’t be able to have his two parents in one house hold . I’m only 20 he’s 25 so I’m glad I won’t be as stressed anymore but it still hurts that my best friend is leaving me and doesn’t give a shit about our marriage anymore because things are just hard right now .. I also have the papers so just have to fill it out which I’m dreading 😓