Do you ever feel kind of jealous about your SO’s previous sexual encounters?

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I don’t know if it’s just because I’m 9 months pregnant and emotional and insecure as fuck about my body right now and how big pregnancy makes you feel/look. Or if I’m just insecure because he’s much older than me and I didn’t “sexually explore” as much as he did but god damn the smallest comment makes me feel insanely jealous and insecure. He’s never fucked anyone behind my back it was all before we were together.. so why do I feel like this??

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We never talk about our past relationship/sexual partners. In the end it doesn’t really make any difference and it only makes me feel insecure for no real reason. If I ever start having thoughts or questions about his past I distract myself. I have learned from past relationships that this kind of rabbit hole only leads to me feeling terrible with no real resolve.

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its probably hormones hun, you cant be mad he knew people before you

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No because I was his first 😂🤦‍♀️

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Just think of it this way, Your the one who gets to say he's your man not them and double score your caring his baby 👌🏻

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I wouldn't necessarily get jealous but more or less uncomfortable. If anyone mentioned it (his brother or friends, long story) i just gave him a look to change the subject or got up to leave. Talking about that stuff is pointless. Now it doesnt phase me at all, I know I'm better than them and always will be. I also know he chose me. A future is/has been seen with me and it never was with them. They are a use to. A had been. Nothing more nothing less. It's just a hiccup in the past. It gets easier. My husband is older than me and definitely more experienced. It's more or less realizing where you are at now. You are the one carrying his child, he is with you. Not them. You two are together. He isnt with them, I know hormones are so hard and rough, especially being pregnant myself I get it. Hang in there momma, it gets easier especially when you dont have hormones effecting everything.

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I don’t think it should matter ! Everyone has a past...

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I was a wild woman so I can totally give him a run for his money if he wants to throw it in my face. But with that said, it hurts my feelings when I'm sick and tired and fat and he starts going on about how he got it 5 or more times a day from his ex. Whenever he wanted no questions asked. And I barely want to do it once a day or once a week. We have an 18mo and I'm 8mos pregnant. I'm also old... so fucking sure me. Things change and I just want to slap him some days.

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I mean. Not in a successful relationship. 
Being mature enough to handle your partners past is a requirement for a successful relationship.  The only time I ever felt this way was when I was too immature to build a successful relationship.. so those relationships failed.
When I decided I wanted a successful relationship I put in the work to overcoming my toxic issues like that so my next relationship would be successful.  And it is. 9 years in.

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Are you saying he makes comments about his past sex life?

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No

Do you ever feel kind of jealous about your SO’s previous sexual encounters?

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