Hey everyone! I need some advice. So me and my husband have been together 4 years but only married for 4 months. We do everything together! We’ve been living together for over a year now. We’ve been TTC since being married but I feel like our sex life has gone. I know it’s crazy because we’re still considered newlyweds like how could your sex life be gone already? Well. Honestly he’s never been the type to want sex a lot. When we first started dating we were together for 5 months before we first had sex and yes we had it most of the time when I would come over to his place. But MOST of the time when we have sex now I initiate it first. He does initiate it sometimes first but majority of the time it’s me. Anyways. We both have full time jobs and are hardly home on weekends. We never really go to bed around the same time either. I’m usually in bed by 10 he’s up watching tv until 11-12 so I’m passed out by the time he gets to bed. Yes we both want kids but he doesn’t understand how “hard” it is to have a kid once you TTC. The last time we’ve had sex was July 15th. It’s now August 9th!!!😡 and when we do have sex, it’s maybe only 3 times a month MAYBE & that’s if I’m lucky. I hate to “ask” for sex and I shouldn’t have to. 😭 I literally cry thinking about it because I feel as if I’m not attractive enough for him to want to have sex with me. I know he’s not cheating on me (that’s what some may suspect) I trust him 100% and he’s a very Christian man! I just need some advice to help me get my husband to have sex with me more so we can actually enjoy our alone time and also have a baby. I don’t know what to do and my heart is breaking. 💔