Me & my bf been together almost 2 years and recently he jailbroke my iPhone I had a couple weeks ago (he broke during an argument but bought me a new one) well he jail broke it by searching how to on YouTube and went thru all of my social media and messages & found basically nothing. I don’t cheat and would never & recently he’s been staying at my house ever since I left his ( he lives with his grandparents & I had gotten so stressed over the year , had enough & left. Long story) but he’s been staying over and one day I seen his password to his phone and I told him and he just laughed it off . Then told me it to confirm I was right .. basically showing he doesn’t care if I were to ever go thru his phone. But when I’d ask (probably the only ever 3 times lmao) he’d show me for like 10 secs and scroll fast and move his hand away. Now tonight he was sleep & I was watching Netflix not paying any attention to him or his phone .. he’s sleep and I looked over and realized that I could for the first time our entire relationship get to snoop how he did me. I felt guilty doing it but at the same time I’m curious. I seen messages between him and a female that he used to work with and gt school with & it’s on sc and one message was him sliding up on her picture in a very exposed bikini. It was in Spanish but I understood most ... saying oh wow your lucky you’re on vacation and stuff but I don’t get why he needs to make small talk on that lol . I feel I sound jealous but also their previous messages were ab her and him asking if she has a bf. Like why should it matter to him! Also on Facebook he had his recent searches filled with females , my brothers ex girlfriend idky & a female he used to have a crush on and not only was she a crush but his friends cousin. She used to go over to his house and stuff and has before touched her accidentally on her breast but he talks ab it as it was exciting (he told me ab that one moment before but that’s all he said & I left it at that) I mean Ik everyone liked someone before their current relationship but that doesn’t mean check their page every week & continue to talk to coworkers you flirted with & talked to. Please give me some advice on how to ask him ab this situation. It makes me

Upset bc I literally haven’t talked to any male for anything. Not even a small talk or let alone a friend request & he has after all this time . With females & also I’ve recently been talking to an old friend that he now no longer likes & wants me to block her but we were in the past best friends since elementary into high school of senior year & she’s been texting me but he has a friend that was once cool with me as in being my boyfriends friend and all and as soon as we had gotten into an argument he told the guy ab how he had felt and basically allowed the guy to talk shit ab me & I told him to block him or at least unfriend him and don’t bring him around me & he still talks to him this day and calls him and everything & is even planning to gt a cook out behind my back. He tell me to never tell our business but tells my business to his friends and family . Btw his family doesn’t want me to be with him bc im not Hispanic lol and can’t relate to them and I’m not white so I’m not a true American girl . His uncles are the ones who said that. Also I’m mixed(black and white) and I’m American lmao so it kinda took me by surprise anyone would say that. I’m just so unsure how to approach him bc I do love him it’s just he does me bogus at times and I never honestly knew he’d do these things. I know it doesn’t sound as bad as other relationships but we are .. well I thought really close & truthful to where I could trust him . I don’t feel like he trusts me from the beginning bc ive never done anything for him to go through my things and my phone.

Just violated my privacy. I know I went through his phone too and I felt guilty but as I’m typing this I don’t anymore . Ig it just opened my eyes to not put such a high pedestal for anyone🤧