I’ve been with my husband a total of eight years. We’ve been married for 2.

The other day I had an “AHA” moment. And that was “I am responsible for my own happiness” it isn’t my husband duty to make me happy. It never was. Without him even knowing, I gave him that job! I’ve been complaining for so long. Always projecting my unhappiness on him. I just always thought when I got married, he would go out and work, provide for us, be a mans man and take care of us while I stayed home, take care of the house, cook, clean, raised our children. I guess that’s what I always wanted. And because of his health issues, he stays home and cooks and cleans. I go to work and do my best to cover the things we need to get by.

And it’s not that I’m not happy with my husband or in my marriage, I’m not happy with myself. And that’s where I’m making the mistake. I have to make me happy first. If I can slowly start making small changes in what I want to see, it’ll encourage him too. To be the best version of himself.

It isn’t ME vs HIM , it’s US vs THE PROBLEM!!!!! This make me love him even more ❤️❤️ and I feel so terrible for making him feel he wasn’t doing enough. He’s such a loyal man. Always going out of his way to do things for me. Ahhhh, This is great. Just wanted to share this you guys. I love my life partner. ❤️❤️❤️❤️