Hello everyone I wanted to ask a few questions about moving and dealing with the court system.

I have an two year old. Me and his father haven’t been together for almost just that long.

He did pay child support but he keep threaten me to take him off. So I took him off. It might sound dumb but honestly I just got sick and tired of the name calling and such.

So my aunt lives in AL. And she wants me to come work from home for her pertaining to her husband. He got into a car wreck and is paralyzed neck down. The army vet will be paying me cause he is retired and it’s 8-5 Mon-Fri. She’s not charging me room and board or nothing. I just buy my own personal items and that’s all. She also lives 5 mins from a college and I got into it and I will be doing my online courses. The program is 2 years long and I will come out making 34 an hour. That’s such a great opportunity for my son and I. I’m tired of struggling. I live in Fl and the cost of living is more than the minimum wage. I work as a CNA and I do a lot of tiring some work. With my aunt I’m home with my son , Working from home and I can finally get back into school for something I want to do. Can focus on my credit , my son and my goals I have ahead of me and SAVE.

My thing is my baby’s father. We never went to court not even for child support. No custody or visitation rights arranged. I did tell him my plans and my goals. Because I’m not that type to just up and leave with my baby. Me and his father don’t get along but that’s just not right specially if my son isn’t in no harms way. He agrees but he wants me to keep my baby down here while I go. I even mention 50/50 and he said nope I want him full time. So I said I’m sorry but that’s not gonna work. I’m capable fine, I’ll be around family, great support system and he will have everything plus more like he does now. I said we can go 50/50 6 months with you and 6 moths with me. Since he hasn’t started school. I hate that but it is his father too.

But he said nope on everything. I said well I will be moving and it’s either you agree before I go or we will just have to go to court. He doesn’t know when I will be filing. He has a new girlfriend and she hates me. She use to down talk me so badly because In the beginning he was trying to get back with me while he was with her but I didn’t allow it. Till this day he still says he loves me and plus more but I could careless. He left me for her now he can have her. He threaten me for child support so he can use the extra money for them two. But I always say what goes around comes around. I took a lot of shit with them two. So I’m doing what makes me happy now.

I know another woman that actually went through the same. They gave them visitation rights. Every other holiday and half the summer. I just want to move and have the best for my son. I don’t want to go to courts but I know he will take me just to be nasty. Even after I offered 50/50. I even offered other suggestions. I was even gonna pay for traveling but he disagreed on everything. What should I do? Just move and wait until he takes me to court.

And to add to this he even told me he didn’t want me to go if I’m not doing this for US. I told him there’s no is and he goes” well it just sounds like your doing it for yourself and I don’t want you going. Your the only woman I want to have kids with and I want to get back with you later on. Right now I’m just enjoying people”.

Like excuse me. Who tf are you ✌🏼