Sweet 16?

So I have always wanted a sweet sixteen. I’ve been dreaming about it since I was a little girl. My birthday is one month away now and I’ve been dropping hints since the beginning of the year. My mom finally came out and told me that It’s not going to happen, my moms working and my dad doesn’t care. I’m really upset about it. Everyone I know has acted like it’s so important, so I feel like I’m going to miss out. My question is did you have a sweet sixteen? If not do you regret not having one?