My grandma constantly tells me how bad it is to drink! (I'm 22 years old) I told her that my chiropractor said it would be good for me to drink wine every night to loosen my muscles because I need adjustments to help my scoliosis. At one of my appointments he could barely adjust my back because my muscles were so tight in my neck and upper back. It isnt like I drink a lot (half a glass) and I dont even drink it every night as he suggested. When I told her for my 22nd bday that my boyfriend bought me one spiked lemonade she said "I just dont understand what good anyone finds in drinking". She then told me that earlier that day, my dad told her he was going to drink a beer and invited her to have one too, and she said "no, she doesnt drink". I just don't understand how anyone (especially family) could be so judgmental. Wine is healthy if not excessive, and ONE GLASS is in no way excessive. I'm just sooo frustrated. I never know what I'm gonna get when I speak to her! There was a time also (before any convos about drinking accured) that she told me to take off my Facebook bio because it mentioned God, and I wasn't very Christian-like because I wont be her friend on Facebook! Sorry for the rant but I'm soo over it! Anybody else have a family member like this? I still speak to her but I'm thinking it isnt healthy for myself!