My baby is 16 days old and I just find myself obsessively worried about sids. I’m a FTM and it just scares me so much. My husband and I don’t have family nearby so it’s just us. What do those of you with no family do? Like when he’s watching her and has to go to the bathroom he obviously can’t watch at her at every minute. When she was in my belly I knew she was safe, now I worry constantly. Does anyone know the statistics on sids? I’m trying to savor every moment but then I also want to fast-forward to four months when the risk of SIDS goes down.