Is it adultery?

Question

Me and my husband went to the bar and he wanted to pick up some girls he wanted to watch us. I told him you can watch but not touch so we did it. I was drunk and now I'm thinking did I commit adultery?

Accepted Answer

God says "if a man should look at another woman he should take out his eye bc he is looking with lust"

Answer

There is way too much shaming you on this comment thread. Yes, it was wrong in God’s eyes. Yes, it was a bad idea. No, you should not do it again and you should ask for forgiveness. But: you are ALREADY forgiven (you just have to request it and receive it) and there is freedom in that. Feeling convicted and acknowledgment of doing something wrong is healthy- SHAMING yourself is not and it is not of God. 
Everyone has their human struggles in sin and we all fall short- what matter is that we look back to Him in the end of the day. Now it’s time to move forward from that situation and grow from it! I am praying over you and your husband and your season to follow this situation ❤️

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Yes.  the drunkenness is also sinful.

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You had relations outside your marriage. Yes that is a sin of adultery

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Its sin read the Bible and fully understand what you did not only did you commit adultrey but you also slept with another woman which is an abomination before the Lord ppl can say no all day long but Gods word is right adultery is not the only sin so dont beat yourself up over it repent to God and sincerely forgive yourself for what you did and move on from it ppl dont realize that back biting is a sin gossiping is a sin but ppl do it all the time not realizing what they're doing is wrong lying is a sin stealing is a sin fornicating is a sin disobedience is a sin and of witch craft evil thinking is a sin adultery is a sin theres many things that are sins but just because you sinned doesnt mean that God doesnt love you but all it takes is repenting and starting your first works back over where ppp go wrong is condemning themselves and thinking that they'll be perfect and that they wont sin but we all have sinned and will sin all we can do is strive to do better and make God proud we are all a work in progress keep your head up

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Absolutely, adultery is committed as soon as you feel it in your heart or think about it in your mind. We are human so mistakes like these happen. Repent and try to stay away from that type of behavior

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Cel

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No you were willing he didn’t force you . And you were there. Honestly having sex w the same person gets boring I’m sure he just wanted to try something different & it’s no one better than with the person you love and trust. If your going to be weird and uncomfortable about tell him you don’t wanna do it again .

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Adultery involves betrayal. Although you should now allow anyone else into your marriage, if you and your husband agreed upon it and forgave each other, I think you’re still one flesh and your biblical marriage is intact.
However talk to Him about it. Even if He says what you committed was adultery, He is still living and merciful and died so you could be forgiven! Talking to Him will grant you peace on this matter 😊

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Well yes. And id personally be thinking about the gay sex factor here as well.

Is it adultery?

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