My fiancé was sitting there with our crying baby trying to comfort her. I asked if he had fed her (it was time for her to eat) and he replies, “no I’m trying to clean!”

I was nice and made a bottle. Pretty sure he expected me to then sit down and feed her. NOPE. Sorry, it’s time to learn that parenting doesn’t give AF what you were doing... you need to stop and take care of the baby. Cleaning will still be there once she’s asleep.

I’m trying to be as nice as possible, but every part of me wants to go into a rant and tell him that he needs to get it together. It doesn’t matter what you were doing or what you had planned... when the baby cries you need to care for her and comfort her. No use in complaining or getting upset. Just do it and make the best of it.