Is my boyfriend being selfish or not?

Leslie

So I have the worst luck when it comes to my period. My sex drive is ALWAYS through the roof no matter what! Me having PCOS can NEVER really track the period...I can only do a "round about" time frame. I was on AF for a month and have only been off of it a week, when I wiped it looked like the LIGHTEST pink you could barely see. I let him know bc he gets all 🤮🤮🤮 when af is around and FLAT OUT REFUSES SEX during.

So, here's where the question comes to play! We had a serious heart to heart and he flat out told me that he has gotten bored especially when I'm on my period bc we "cant do anything" (mind you he still gets blow jobs and hand jobs)! He has even had the nerve to tell me he wants us to get a gf so when I'm raggin he can play around with her... basically he wants to be able to cheat without it really being cheating cause wed be what you could say as a throuple. Is it just me and being overly sensitive about the whole ordeal or what? He used to never have issues with it and now he does. He said it just isnt the same since my ex isnt living with us cause the "thrill of getting caught" is gone...hes always been an amazing guy but something in him switched. In a way I'm kinda glad we talked it all out and was honest with each other. Please tell me your opinions!

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