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So , im gonna apologize in advance for the long post , but i seriously don’t know what else to do nor have anyone to talk too about this , so if y’all wouldn’t care I would LOVE to hear from advice , thanks ...
Anyway , 5 1/2 months ago , I met this guy , we talked for a few days , & then started hanging out . Once we hung out we instantly clicked . We ended up being a couple , & he was telling me how a month earlier (back in January) he had just gotten out of a mental hospital due to being high on drugs & swimming across the river in 20 degree weather because of him being “chased” , i blew it off & didn’t really care about it i was in love with him as a person , he made me smile , laugh & I just felt absolutely AMAZING around him we even was trying for a baby , had our own place , ALWAYS had his kids , a job etc . Everything was PERFECT , well few months later everything changed , he got his vehicle repoed , & then slowly stopped seeing his kids , even quit his job (has worked since) ... (4 months later) he starts being “different” he started reading the Bible (which isn’t a bad thing at all) but he was taking it to another level ... one night , we were sitting around & all of sudden he says “babe , I have another soul in my body (Jehovah)” & im thinking in head like “uh , wtf” anyway , I brushed it off & didn’t pay him any attention .. well as days go on , he starts laughing out loud at literally NOTHING , & im like “wtf why’s he random laughing” & then he started talking to himself , telling me we had to get on this “spaceship” blah blah blah .. I eventually got tired of dealing with it & we spilt up for 3 weeks .. the reason why we broke up is because I couldn’t take it , him constantly laughing , wasn’t paying attention , etc . We worked things out , he’s a lil better but still have symptoms , laughing , talking to himself etc . But now , i feel like he’s not being serious about anything anymore , we hardly speak when we are around each other , I love him with all my heart . But idk what else to do .. how can I convince him into getting help ?? Mental illness runs on his moms side of the family , btw .. & he also has a script for suboxone , which he’s been taking for over a year , could this have caused his problem ?? Or has he gotten ahold of bad dope or what ??
Please leave your advice below ..
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