So I went out on Friday night with my sister and a few friends. I haven’t been out in a year so after a few drinks I ended up quite wasted. My sister took me home to my boyfriend who was waiting for me. I remember him helping me out of my jacket and shoes and putting me into bed.

In the morning when I woke up he said I wanna show you something.. I said ‘ok’.. he had video’d himself having sex with me whilst I was blackout drunk. I saw myself in the video and I was dead to the world. I can’t even remember any of that happening or even feeling him having sex with me. I was beyond shocked because he video’d me whilst I wasn’t in a position to consent to it and it made me feel really uncomfortable. I didn’t tell him that cause I thought maybe I’m over reacting as we’re in a relationship but I would have liked to have been aware of it. Am I over thinking things?