Planning a wedding for a ton of people is really stressing me out. Ive booked my photographer already but havent dont anything else. I just get overwhelmed with it all. I have terrible social anxiety and I dont really have a lot of real friends. None of my family lives in this state and my fiance has no family either. So it would be so expensive to fly people in. With the budget I have, venues and catering are nearly impossible to afford. We are doing a complete remodel on our entire house right now too, so money is very tight! I honestly just want to decorate an alter or arch or something and only have my fiance and i present with our photographer. No friends. No family. No pressure. Less expenses. Beautiful photos. I would still wear my dress and all but I wouldnt have to worry about all the extra stuff. It just seems so much less stressful this way. But i feel like theres some sort of social obligation to have everyone involved in your wedding. My mom would want to fly in for it. My dad probably wouldnt come even if I had a big wedding and i would have to find someone to walk me down the aisle. Ugh. Idk what to do.