How do i leave him?

Im so hurt and lost at what to do yall. My husbands been accusing me of cheating and being secretive. Everything i do, hed say that i cheated. Like just go to the store while he works, or take the kids to the park, go hangout w friends/families, go run errands. Hed say i cheated. But yall, he does those things too, he always go places after work without telling me. I dont even care, not until after he keeps accusing me of cheating when i do the things that he do. Hes secretive with his phone and email. He talks to women behind my back. But he doesnt ever let me talk to guys. He goes to places behind my back, like the bar, etc. And he said to me that if i do those things, hes gone. I bring all this up to him and he said hes a man, no women would hollar at him. However, im a woman, he knows a lot of men will hollar at me, and he thinks i cant control myself and will get easily seduced. Idk anymore, im going crazy. I feel like hes the one cheating on me and he thinks im gonna be like him.