vagina labia

so my labia is slightly bigger than usual i guess? and it’s kinda embarrassing and i’m rlly scared it’s not normal and was wondering what guys think of this? like i always see memes about people calling them meat lips and all this but i’m just rlly embarrassed and idk what to do.. even my mom sometimes calls me out and says why does ur vagina look like that like it’s not normal and idk what the hell she wants me to do about it but it’s just rlly annoying. i’m 17 and never had a bf but i feel like it’d prevent me from getting one lol