I’m not sure exactly where to post this but I want to know how everyone might handle this. My FIL is a registered sex offender. He plead guilty to attempted sodomy of a 10 year old girl about 18 years ago. He did his time and everything. I now have 2 daughters, ages 2 and 9 months. My FIL just got married and his wife wants to have a sleepover with all the grandkids. I’ve told my husband several times in the past that his father is not to be alone with our kids. Or any kids for that matter. My husband is in denial of what his dad did and thinks I’m overreacting. He also tells me his dads wife will be there, which I know she will be. But I’m truly not comfortable sending my 2 year old to his house for the night. I don’t care if there’s 100 people in the house, I don’t want her there without me or my husband. My husband is mad because I said no and he said “Oh. We’re back to that?” Then he told me I have to tell his dad and his wife my reason for saying no. I honestly don’t think his wife knows. I will let him see my kids and that’s not a problem, I just want to be there at all times. I don’t know if I’m asking what to say or what. Lol. I guess I just want to hear others opinions. We recently went to a county fair and his dad was carrying my daughter and one of the sheriffs there knew his dad and made a comment about it. So he knows he’s not supposed to be alone with the kids.