This guy I’ve been hooking up with/talking to for a few months got upset with me 3 days ago. We hung out, had sex and he finished in me. Right after, he told me he’s getting too comfortable and needs to stop. He said the only way to stop is to not have sex with me for a while. As he was saying this he was laughing so I took it as a joke. But then he started to say he was serious and I got upset. I asked if he doesn’t want to hang out anymore tell me. He said he never said that. These past few months I’ve been so confused as to what’s going on with us and this just made it worse. I got frustrated and said he just wanted me for sex and he said if that was the case he would have had sex with me once then dip. It was already 4am and he had to get up early. I was frustrated and he got more frustrated and he dropped me off at my car and asked me to just go. The next morning I felt so bad and texted him a paragraph saying I was sorry. He never responded. I called him a few hours later bc I left something in his car. I ended up saying sorry over the phone and he said “whatever it doesn’t matter”. I straight up asked him if he wanted to hang out anymore and he said “we’ll see”. He hasn’t contacted me since. He’ll be one of the first ones still to look at posts I put on my story.

I don’t feel like the ball is in his court anymore as he answered what I sent over the phone. I’m planning on texting him tomorrow but idk what to say to make him not ignore me again and actually want to meet up and hang out. I know he hates clingy ppl. I also have something of his that I’ve been meaning to give back for a week now and he knows that too. What do I even say??