We’ve been together 9 years and he admitted to cheating last year with a customer of his but he insist it was nothing and he felt bad so he ended it. We were having problems in our relationship for the first time and I understand that he was going through a tough time so I decided to work on our problems instead of leaving him.

Since then he has been trying to regain my trust but a part of me still thinks about him and the other woman.

Fast forward to this year, exactly 9 months later, I find out she gave birth to twin girls and told me its a “strong possibility” it belongs to my man of almost 10yrs.

He doesn’t want to take a dna test. He doesn’t want to deal with the other woman and he doesn’t want to know if those are his kids.

She told him she was going to raise them alone and doesn’t need anything from him but now her and her family are DEMANDING a dna test. And I’m pissed!!!

I just want all of this to go away do we can continue to grow together.

But if they kids are his, I don’t think I can stay and raise babies that are not mine.