I’m sorry I have to vent just a little bit...

Last Sunday was my fiancé’s nephews 1st bday party. On Saturday the night before the party I worked and I work with my soon to be brother in laws friend and he asked if I was going to the party. I said yes I was going and made a JOKE saying that if I didn’t show up my fiancé’s mom would be upset with me, even laughed after I said it and told him I was kidding. Well the next day at the party after my fiancé and I left his friend told him what I said about how my fiancé’s mom would be mad if I didn’t show up and they told her what I said and said it completely out of context of what I had said. So fast forward to today she asked me about it and I told her the truth and she was not upset she actually knew I was joking. They said that his friend would never lie and everything.

I mean they just took it way out of portion more than they should have. From the beginning I didn’t think that they liked me. I moved in with my fiancé and his parents a year and a half ago due to me being kicked out, they didn’t like that I moved in because my soon to be SIL wasn’t allowed to move in but yet I was. Oh and my fiancé’s brother and his SIL always call him stupid and make fun of him and think he’s spoiled when he’s not either ( he is the baby of the family ) but when he says one thing they both get butthurt over it. My fiancé is not stupid, he saved up enough money at TWENTY years old and BOUGHT a house for us to start our lives in. He also just started school to become a realtor.

The night my fiancé purposed they left before he did because they were “ tired “ even though they left because one thing pissed his SIL off. They didn’t even see their own brother get engaged. I love my fiancé’s mom and dad they’re awesome, but it sucks im marrying into a family where I don’t like my BIL or SIL, I don’t like the way they treat us.

Sorry for making this rant long I’m just sick and tired of being the bad guy in the family when I don’t do anything but encourage my fiancé to do better.